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Thursday, November 16, 2006

Happy Birthday to Me :)

When I was in my last year of high school I made a list..

You must know that I love making lists. I make pointform notes almost everyday on the things I want to get done. I must have written my will when I was 16. I found it the other day. Give all shoes to one sister. Give all my socks to the other sister. We can tell who I didn't like much at that time :)

..But this list that I found recently is different. It's a list of things I had hoped to accomplish by the time I turned 23.

Today I turned 23.

There are certain things I can check off with no problem on the list:

a Pray 5 daily prayers (without having Mom/Dad remind me)
a Graduate from a university (preferably not UofT)
a Be qualified as a high school teacher (if desperate, teach elementary school)
a Find a teaching job in Peel (if desperate, teach up North)
a Have a steady income (steady enough so that it doesn't bother me when throwing
pennies in the water fountain with V)
a Pay my own zakat (of a substantial amount)


Then there are goals that I can't check off but I still feel have been met in some way, shape, or form:

s ...Be engaged to be married (be wearing the ring)
s ...If married, make sure to go to Bora Bora for honeymoon (take a lot of sexy swimsuits)
s ...If engaged, make sure guy knows we’re going to Bora Bora for honeymoon (if he doesn't know, make sure to drop hints everyday until he agrees)

s ...Have my own car (preferably not a Volvo passed down from Dad)
s ...Do not get pregnant until at least being married for 3 years (or at age 26).

I'm not engaged, but I sort of am (or let's just say that so that I feel better about meeting some of these goals). But I'm certainly NOT married, so obviously I haven't gone on my honeymoon yet. And, while the lucky guy does know that we're going to Bora Bora, I'm having second thoughts .. not on the guy! - on the honeymoon destination - I'm now thinking Italy.

There's a question mark beside my car goal because from a previous post you should all be aware of the fact that I'm simply in love with my car. Even though it's a Volvo... passed down from my dad. So this the car goal doesn't even apply anymore.

There's also a question mark beside my getting pregnant goal because I certainly still do NOT want a child at any time soon. When I get married I want to have my husband to myself for as long as I can :D This goal still fits according to my plan.

I figure I must have been more mature than I thought during that last year of high school because none of these goals are too crazy. Are they?

This is nothing like the list I made when I was 11. If I had actually followed that then I'd be an uneducated and unemployed princess living in a mansion with a canopy bed, a balcony overlooking a lake with mermaids, and living with a nonexistent prince - the prince who only lasts in the picture long enough to impregnate me with twins - the twins somehow born in such a way that my belly does not expand an inch. Wow. It'd be cool to be 11 again and actually think like that...

I'm 23. Time to put together a new list.

17 Comments:

  • At 9:27 p.m., Blogger FU said…

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

    I'M FIRST!!!!

    cute list... ur the total opposite of me. when i make a list, nothing happens that i want/plan.

    things just kinda happen for me. rolling along....

    have a wonderful day!!!

     
  • At 12:16 a.m., Anonymous Anonymous said…

    happy birthday :)

     
  • At 2:26 a.m., Blogger sara said…

    I think your list both shows your maturity at the time, and that goals evolve, cause while you haven't achieved some of those goals, they're actually no longer your goals! Let us know when you make your new list, it'll be interesting to read.

     
  • At 7:37 a.m., Blogger zee said…

    happy bday liya

    hope it was gr8 day

    like FU, my lists never pan out, so good on u:)

     
  • At 9:27 a.m., Blogger Becky L said…

    life is so interesting.
    my "goals" from highschool werent really met. well, i've always wanted to be married and be a mom, which i am now, and its great. but the other stuff never happened.

    maybe later, once erica's older and in school...

     
  • At 11:45 a.m., Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Happy Birthday! Scorpios rule!

     
  • At 6:26 p.m., Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Wishing you a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Hope you had a wonderful day and may all your dreams and wishes come true! :)

     
  • At 7:43 p.m., Anonymous Anonymous said…

    well happy birthday for like tha 3rd time..lol...i wish i had accomplished most of my list...well i had a mental list...and accordin to it..im supposed to b engaged as well...at least u got urself a guy...i dun even have that...and by now i was also supposed to b in dental school...which also didnt work out since i changed my mind...so now its even more depressin that im turnin 23.....so now i decided no more lists for my future...that way i can b pleasantly surprised when it happens rather than disappointed that it happened 2 yrs late..lol...

     
  • At 9:44 p.m., Blogger 'liya said…

    Thanks everyone! And thanks to everyone who called, emailed, and sent silly cards!

    I forgot to mention that the classes I was substituting for both sang me happy birthday and that my own class has our own "special singer" and he sang to me while the rest of the class cheered him on! If you can't tell, I had a great day at school :)

    Fu: I wish things could sometimes happen for me like that but it never does which is why I have to plan. But I like making plans even if they don't always go through. BTW I can't wait to see your play!

    Umar: Thanks!

    Clairissa: I agree life can't be planned, only God knows what's to come in the future! That's why I never know if the things I list will even be accomplished at all. But I love to set goals for myself. It helps me stay motivated!

    Sara: I like your comment, that's exactly what I was thinking. I'll make my new list soon - I'm thinking this one should be aimed to age 30. Still thinking of what I want to achieve by then.. it's hard thinking that far!

    Zee: That's okay, not everyone can be a list person! If I didn't write my lists though I'd probably be writing on my hand :S

    Becky: Sometimes things are just meant to be! Who knows, maybe you'll reach one of them tomorrow, or maybe a year from now, but at some point you'll get there and when you do it'll be the perfect time.

    Ahmed: Thank you :D

    Shireen: Thanks so much!

    Samia: Sounds like a good plan - and much more fun that way! I'm waiting to hear all about how your birthday goes now, I'm sure it'll be more exciting than mine!

     
  • At 10:35 p.m., Anonymous Anonymous said…

    happy birthday .. have a fabulous day.
    really happy to see that u pray regularly :)

     
  • At 12:34 a.m., Anonymous Anonymous said…

    OMG...Happy belated birthday!!!!! May your year be full of happiness and joy. And hey, what's the rush getting married...enjoy your life in your parents home with their comforts while u can....;)

     
  • At 1:46 a.m., Blogger Squeeky said…

    Assalaamu Alaikum :)

    Aww, Happy belated Birthday! May Allah Swt surround you with love, happiness, success and Deen, always! ameen.

    Very cute, insha'Allah Allah Swt will bring the two of you together soon enough :D aww! I've always wanted to go to Egypt or Spain for my honeymoon ... no idea why. Maybe because I would really like to visit both places. England too but I'd never go there for a honeymoon, the weather is too depressing hehe

    Anyways, I hope you enjoyed your day! 23 is an ... okay age :P

     
  • At 11:08 a.m., Blogger 'liya said…

    Nabeel: Thanks :)

    Faiza: Thanks :) You're right, I'm so lucky to have so many comforts at home, but you know how it is, I can only take my sisters stealing my clothes for so long before I just want out! LOL

    Squeeky: Thanks :) Spain sounds quite lovely too. My friend went there and said it was beautiful. I always wanted to go to Egypt when I was a kid - you know the whole explore the pyramids thing! There's so many places I want to go, it's hard to decide. I wish I could travel around the whole world :S

     
  • At 2:52 a.m., Blogger mezba said…

    I know this will be a cliche comment, but - Happy birthday.

     
  • At 8:15 p.m., Anonymous Anonymous said…

    its about time he asks u.. what kind of ring did agent give u?
    when are u married

     
  • At 10:39 p.m., Blogger Asmaa said…

    Happy birthday...what's wrong with U of T?

     
  • At 11:20 p.m., Blogger 'liya said…

    Mezba: Thanks :)

    Anonymous: What!! What?! That's news to me.. I look at my finger and don't see no ring :D

    Asmaa: I don't know, for some reason I just never wanted to go there. Teenagers are weird are they not? Sometimes (mostly!) there just isn't any logical thought put behind what they say (or write!) lol.

     

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